I don't mean to sound harsh but there is so much to consider about how this decision will affect both you and your wife. I read your post, and can identify with every point. I seldom hug her or kiss her. He is going down fast and is taking Copaxone shots I hate to think how bad he would be if he was not taking the shots. Thousands of protesters march through London today to mark Ashura and celebrate the defeat of the Islamic State in Iraq and Syria. Now we can research, make a plan and prepare ourselves.
I too was brought up in a home with a father that cheated. Neither do I disagree with you that it is better to not share too much detail about the past with a partner in the present. My case is extreme, but I hope those of you perpetrating these affairs realize a couple of things:. He was an alcoholic, immature, insecure and jealous.
I wish you luck. Need help breaking free from addiction? I can barely bring myself to reply as courageously as you have done. Guess what, I filed and everyone still thought he was an asshole. Is it a strain on a marriage, Absolutely.
For me it is still a betrayal and if I found out, I would struggle to forgive. I will change my attidute and spend time on myself. I would be absolutely devastated if my husband looked elsewhere for sex. We have been togeather 4 3 years ,Iam not sure whats happening Yes I know hes getting worse hes now in a wheel chair,I feel so bad I cant do any thing 4 him hes moods are so up down,I try to be soportive of his needs but I we dont have any body out side the 2 of us,I care 4 him 24 7,. You post that you would have more sympathy for the person that chooses not to air their dirty laundry in public. Couples who can play tennis, bike, ski together — like we did early in our marriage 4. My wife has ppms.