Don't let paranoia ruin the relationship's potential. Bisexuals are not any more or less likely to be monogamous than anyone else. Pick the right moment, like when you are having a heart to heart, or when you are out having fun. Just because they're attracted to both sexes doesn't mean they want both at the same time. Enter the perfect middle ground: I have compassion for people who are confused; I know it is complicated.
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It feels like you are mistrusted, that people think you have actively chosen to take the route of most privilege without considering the ways in which you are now held at the margins by the community you most identify with. Sexual identity is not automated based on the gender of the person you happen to be in a relationship with at the time. And definitely don't let it morph your perception of yourself. That said, being in a very typical-looking straight relationship means people assume I'm straight so there hasn't been much 'coming out,' and it has been a struggle for me to identify and be active in any community because of my relationship status. Read on to put your concerns away and relax in your relationship.
As such, do not ask your partner if he or she is attracted to each person that they meet. They may openly express their disbelief at the legitimacy of your relationship or show inappropriate levels of surprise or pessimism. Don't let jealousy become an issue. If the person does not like you, then do not force them into kissing you. They are just like everyone else.
Many bisexual women will not prefer one sex over another, and will love you for who you are as long as you do the same. For a long time, many gay and bisexual people couldn't act on their feelings, or society would reject them. He loves me as I am. For him, it was just another thing to know about his mom, to file with things like my being a writer, growing up in Connecticut, etc. Lets just say we are no longer friends. I was isolated and felt very alone.